Friday, September 19, 2008

Validate Another Human Being

It's the sickest behavior I have come across and the higher up on the class ladder you go the more you'll notice it. I am talking about being used by people who constantly need their egos boosted and validated. If you come across a person who will only extend themselves to you if you are boosting up their ego, leave them alone. Do your business with them and give them back to the wolves.
Remember you are no ones servant, or subject. You are ENTITLED to live a successful and healthy life and what that boils down to is having whatever you put out reciprocated. This is the rule of life. It's very basic. Only those who value you, respect you as their equal, and honor your friendship is worth your time. Do NOT sell your soul to be accepted. It's a cheap trade-off. It's very important to do everything in your power to maintain your pride.

Now if you are a person that does not mind stroking another person's ego, by all means continue. But it is not for everybody. I had to share this with my daughter last night, and it was very interesting conversation. She's a bright young woman, very wise for her age.

Listen, every human being matters. In my opinion, there is not one person above the other, but I am a writer -what do I know? Because I am easily inspired, everyone is a god or goddess. But, there are some others who get drunk on others people's compliments, phone-calls, emails and messages. Especially if they think that you are less than them. If somehow (in their mind) they are higher on the totem pole than you. Be careful of those individuals.

Life is a two way street. Relationships are a two way street. If you find yourself on a one way street, make a U-Turn.

Good Luck!

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